ALL ABOARD!!

“You know what! Your not $#@*!!!! You never do this!!!! And you never do” ……. HOLD IT RIGHT THERE!!!! LADIES! The key to a man’s  heart is to NOT NAG! Instead of telling your man what he does or doesn’t do, tell him what he does do right. Boost his confidence, instead of putting him down. Even let him get a little “EGO” as Beyonce the singer would say. I’m telling you this from a guy’s perspective. To many relationships get ruined or end because the guy feels like he’s never doing his job. Think about it like this ladies. The good always out weights the bad. Think positive, and not negative. Men like to feel wanted and needed. Give your man a compliment to show him that you care from time to time. When you nag or complain about what’s wrong, the guy is always thinking “Am I ever going to do anything right?” or “Am I ever good enough??” I can’t speak for every man in the world but from what I’ve encountered , men tend to lean toward talking to or better yet cheating due to this problem not feeling wanted, or scowled  at all the time. Positive words of encouragement leads to positive outcomes and situations. Remember women, in order for your relation”SHIP” to sail smoothly, you must first reel in your anchor. Better yet meaning you can make a relationship feel as if you’ve just started off or “set sail” just by words of encouragement.

Trust Issues

Women and Men tremble at the thought of the word "Trust". From relationships to the modern world, the word trust and the meaning of it is the root of all evil. Without trust there is and can never be a positive connection, but in relationships especially, the word trust means EVERYTHING. It is essential in any relationship. Trust as my definition is the ability to give your all to someone else knowing that he or she is in the right state of mind to not break it. SO ATTENTION ALL WOMEN OUT THERE!!! Trust your other half!! The number one response that I hear when I listen in on a conversation between two ladies is “My ex cheated on me so that’s why I have a hard time trusting the next guy”. Ladies I agree 100 %. It is hard to trust someone after being heart broken, but the next guy shouldn’t have to suffer because of your low-down dirty ex boyfriend!! (Your probably chuckling as you read this), but from a males perspective it sucks having to put in your all into someone you truly like or care for, and get nothing out of it but your girlfriend asking you a million and one questions, or accusing you of doing something your not. So ladies the key to any relationship is TRUST! Without it you relation”SHIP” will for sure “SINK”, but with trust it will surely “SAIL”.