Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Trust Issues

Women and Men tremble at the thought of the word "Trust". From relationships to the modern world, the word trust and the meaning of it is the root of all evil. Without trust there is and can never be a positive connection, but in relationships especially, the word trust means EVERYTHING. It is essential in any relationship. Trust as my definition is the ability to give your all to someone else knowing that he or she is in the right state of mind to not break it. SO ATTENTION ALL WOMEN OUT THERE!!! Trust your other half!! The number one response that I hear when I listen in on a conversation between two ladies is “My ex cheated on me so that’s why I have a hard time trusting the next guy”. Ladies I agree 100 %. It is hard to trust someone after being heart broken, but the next guy shouldn’t have to suffer because of your low-down dirty ex boyfriend!! (Your probably chuckling as you read this), but from a males perspective it sucks having to put in your all into someone you truly like or care for, and get nothing out of it but your girlfriend asking you a million and one questions, or accusing you of doing something your not. So ladies the key to any relationship is TRUST! Without it you relation”SHIP” will for sure “SINK”, but with trust it will surely “SAIL”.





2 comments:

  1. I love this blog because trust is the number 1 key to any successful relationship. I agree with you 100% when you said that another guy shouldn’t have to suffer because the guy before messed up. I mean you didn’t say it in those exact words, but it was in the same area of what you were saying. Girls might be mad when I say this but I feel that when a girl says that, it’s just a way or excuse to make the next guy work harder for you. And as I heard before, “One man’s trash might be another ones treasure.” And I feel that if a girl is making the next dude pay for the last one mistakes, she will never have a successful relationship with anyone. Everyone gets heartbroken a time in their life, and every time you get hurt never regret it, just learn from it and make it your lesson learned.

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  2. I totally agree with you on this. Trust is everything in a relationship! In my opinion if you do not trust your partner then there should not be a relationship. If you are constantly asking each other questions on what they are doing or who they are with then you should not be in a relationship with each other because what is the point if you cannot trust each other. Also, I agree with you that the next guy should not have to work harder or suffer just because the girl came out of a bad relationship or was cheated on.

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