Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Social Networks

Social Networks is a place for friends such as Myspace and Facebook. The key words are a "place for friends". Women, social networks are not a place for your relationship information. The point of these social networks are to stay in touch with friends and share friendly information. The thing i hate most is logging on to Facebook and seeing a girl talk about her relationship problem. Some things just aren't for Facebook. People don't need to know about who your sleeping with or if your boyfriend broke your heart and your lonely! This just starts problems ladies. When you put your information on Facebook it is scanned over by people who want to see you fail in life and much more people who want to see you miserable. Answer me this ladies. "How can a healthy relationship be maintained if everyone knows whats going on in our relationship?" It can't. so keep your heart and your mind to yourself ladies. Social networks aren't the place for this information.

4 comments:

  1. This is very good advice which I do not see being followed a lot of the time! I always log onto Facebook and see depressing statuses that girls post that is obviously about their boyfriends. I keep my relationship totally out of Facebook because I do not think it is anyone’s business but mine. If I want advice from someone about my relationship I definitely do not ask for it on Facebook. I hate when I see drama all over Facebook it is ridiculous and just shows your maturity level. I think we all need to keep in mind Facebook is a social media site and not a site for your drama.

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  2. I cannot lie, I usually do post statuses about how upset I am sometimes,but never say "my boyfriend left me" or something along those lines, but I really do try to avoid it. Yes, social networks are becoming a huge problem when it comes to relationships. One thing I do not do, and hate when people do it, is when they say how desperate they are for a boyfriend or how single they are. I have a Facebook to keep in touch with my family, and I have considered deleting it many, many times.

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  3. You are exactly right! I swear every other post I see is about how much someone loves their boyfriend or how much they hate being alone. When I was on Facebook yesterday a girl I know posted “Doesn’t he know it is breaking us” and there were over 20 comments from her friends bad talking her boyfriend and giving her advice. When I saw this all I could think of was how immature she is and her friends. Another girl writes everyday how lucky she is to have her boyfriend and how she is his “Cinderella” honestly? It just makes me laugh. I think one’s relationship should stay private not something for the whole world to see on Facebook.

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  4. i completely agree with just about every post you make. Being one of the only people on the planet without a facebook or any other social network acount. I think they are affal for people anyways. I feel that just the skill of being able to talk to people to learn information is slowly diying.

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