Sexual Tention??

Ladies the number 1 thing that I'm sure every male absolutely will love is a women who loves to spice things up. Your probably thinking while reading this that this will be interesting right? Hopefully you still have that state of mind after reading this. Point blank period GUYS LOVE SEX! Nothing satisfies a male more than SEX! The three letter word. Spicing things up in the bedroom will make your life much easier and guess what ladies. It will eliminate the chances of your guy cheating! Ladies if your a passionate lover how about you try being more aggressive and rough in the bedroom.  Males love being taken advantage of. When having sex try changing up positions. This will show your guy that your willing to do whatever to please him. This will ignite the passion and lust for each other. I am sure this will keep you relationship sailing smoothly.

Motivation Goes Along Way

Ladies the key to loving a significant other starts with yourselves. Insecurities may occur do to lack of control or low self-esteem. Try waking up telling yourself your beautiful everyday and see if your relationship increases in sexual performance or either the well being of the relationship. Your motivation should be the will to be happy with yourself and your other half. You will find that your other half will also be motivated because he's going to be thinking "Man i have a women who is inspired to really be with me. she is a keeper." So remember ladies the key to a relationship surely starts with yourself.

Social Networks

Social Networks is a place for friends such as Myspace and Facebook. The key words are a "place for friends". Women, social networks are not a place for your relationship information. The point of these social networks are to stay in touch with friends and share friendly information. The thing i hate most is logging on to Facebook and seeing a girl talk about her relationship problem. Some things just aren't for Facebook. People don't need to know about who your sleeping with or if your boyfriend broke your heart and your lonely! This just starts problems ladies. When you put your information on Facebook it is scanned over by people who want to see you fail in life and much more people who want to see you miserable. Answer me this ladies. "How can a healthy relationship be maintained if everyone knows whats going on in our relationship?" It can't. so keep your heart and your mind to yourself ladies. Social networks aren't the place for this information.

Just The 2 Of Us

The thing about a relationship is that thing that you and that special someone share. Anything said between the two of you should be kept between you and that person, and yes ladies i know when ladies get around each other they like to gossip brag or boast or even downgrade their significant other in their girl talks. Ive witnessed to many relationships that has that third person involved because either the male or the female in the relationship has exposed issues or regarding there other. So women don't let this be you. When you have your girl talks keep the important things to yourself. Weather that's the issue of Sex, money, or even just affection. If you know there's a issue just keep it to yourself and try to solve it. This is just another Sail to keep your Relationship running smooth.

The Truth Sets Free

"The truth shall set you free." I know many of you women have heard this saying in your lifetime. Any relationship whether its a sexual relationship or family relationship is built on trust. NO SECRETS KEPT! Ladies if your going through hard times or a break up and you decide that while or during that break up to be involved with another individual and you and your boyfriend decide to get back together please let him know. The truth will set you free. If your boyfriend cares about you that much that while you weren't involved you made a mistake and he can except that then he truly is the one for you. Nine times out of ten he has probably made a mistake or a couple of them while you were not together. HONESTY IS KEY TO ANY RELATIONSHIP! So ladies, your best bet to working out a relationship is to be honest. Another positive step to keeping your SHIP sailing smooth.

Friend"SHIPS" Don't EXIST

Women when you are having that "hard times" phase in your relationship, who do you always go to? The number one response is friends. Having a support system is key to any success in a relationship, but not every "key" can open every "lock". You might ask yourself... "What is he talking about when he say's key". When i say key i mean friends are a good support system with any situation including relationships, as long as they are positive. Positivity can open many aspects and many "doors" in any situations in life. Negativity won't open doors in life... Yes, friends can give input and feedback on if they think a guy is doing you wrong, but when things are going right and your friend is in your ear, that is when your relation"SHIP" will sink. Look at it this way, no one can make you happy more than that person you care about. No one knows what truly goes on in your relationship except you two in it. No one can tell you how to feel about someone or love someone except your heart! SO STOP LETTING FRIENDS ENCOURAGE YOUR DECISIONS, BECAUSE FRIENDS CAN'T MAKE OR KEEP YOU HAPPY! Alot of times you will be stuck with that "I miss him phase", but then it will be too late. SO LADIES!!!! Listen to your heart, and not your friends. Friend"SHIPS" will sink. Following this advice and your relation"SHIP" will surely sail.

ALL ABOARD!!

“You know what! Your not $#@*!!!! You never do this!!!! And you never do” ……. HOLD IT RIGHT THERE!!!! LADIES! The key to a man’s  heart is to NOT NAG! Instead of telling your man what he does or doesn’t do, tell him what he does do right. Boost his confidence, instead of putting him down. Even let him get a little “EGO” as Beyonce the singer would say. I’m telling you this from a guy’s perspective. To many relationships get ruined or end because the guy feels like he’s never doing his job. Think about it like this ladies. The good always out weights the bad. Think positive, and not negative. Men like to feel wanted and needed. Give your man a compliment to show him that you care from time to time. When you nag or complain about what’s wrong, the guy is always thinking “Am I ever going to do anything right?” or “Am I ever good enough??” I can’t speak for every man in the world but from what I’ve encountered , men tend to lean toward talking to or better yet cheating due to this problem not feeling wanted, or scowled  at all the time. Positive words of encouragement leads to positive outcomes and situations. Remember women, in order for your relation”SHIP” to sail smoothly, you must first reel in your anchor. Better yet meaning you can make a relationship feel as if you’ve just started off or “set sail” just by words of encouragement.