Monday, October 17, 2011
The Truth Sets Free
"The truth shall set you free." I know many of you women have heard this saying in your lifetime. Any relationship whether its a sexual relationship or family relationship is built on trust. NO SECRETS KEPT! Ladies if your going through hard times or a break up and you decide that while or during that break up to be involved with another individual and you and your boyfriend decide to get back together please let him know. The truth will set you free. If your boyfriend cares about you that much that while you weren't involved you made a mistake and he can except that then he truly is the one for you. Nine times out of ten he has probably made a mistake or a couple of them while you were not together. HONESTY IS KEY TO ANY RELATIONSHIP! So ladies, your best bet to working out a relationship is to be honest. Another positive step to keeping your SHIP sailing smooth.
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Before I started dating my ex-boyfriend again after over a year of being with other people I told him that I want to be with him, but I do not trust him and I did not know if I ever will. We dated for 2 years before he cheated and it broke my heart. I have never felt that terrible and I told myself I would not go through that again. It took him 5 months of convincing me to date him again and once I agreed he told me it would never work without trust. So we dumped everything on the table, secrets from the past, feelings, other people, and where our future was going. I felt a little better, but was still not convinced, until Christmas when I opened a box with a promise ring. I am not materialistic so it’s not the fact he gave me jewelry, but what his promise was. He told me what happened in the past will never happen again and the biggest mistake he made was ending what we had and the only way we can do this was to let him in.
ReplyDeleteIn a way, if people break up then both of you are single. Therefore, whatever you do, and wherever you go should not matter because no one has any say in what either one of you can or can not do. My ex boyfriend was very controlling and decided he wanted to get mad when I went out, WITH MY FRIENDS, but we are not dating. It's pretty bad when he doesn't want me going out with my friends because he knows we party. Big deal, but yes I would tell him if I did anything, or met someone else, but I would expect him to not get mad about it because we were not together.
ReplyDeleteWhen I read this blog all these memories started coming back. I currently just go back with my ex. We didn’t break up we just separated because I was going off to school. We have been dating now for almost 3 years not including out separation. Before we officially got back together I asked him was there anything he needed to tell me and he let me know something that I thought that I couldn’t handle. But after I thought about it, I thought that my love for him is too strong, to let a little incident like that get between us. I was honest with him as well and he accepted it and like you said if they accept it they are truly the one. And I came to the conclusion that he is.
ReplyDeleteI love your way of talking so honestly about relationships. Most of the things you say i would hsve to agree with. Honesty vcan hurt things for a short time but in the long run it is better. Great blog by the way.
ReplyDeleteHonesty is the key to everything! I know as a guy who has been lied to many times in the past I don’t put up with lying at all. one of my last relationships I was in lasted for a year and a half and in the middle of it we decided to take a break and yeah we both saw other people but after a few weeks talking secretly we decided to get back together and I asked her to be straight with me and tell the truth if she has done anything with another guy and she swore she didn't so we got back together. A few weeks later the truth came out one night when we were hanging out at her house. I would have been so mad if she would have been honest with me in the first place but since she lied to me just so we would get back together it made me feel like everything was just worthless and a lie..... So I got her back but that's a different story.
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