Monday, October 17, 2011

The Truth Sets Free

"The truth shall set you free." I know many of you women have heard this saying in your lifetime. Any relationship whether its a sexual relationship or family relationship is built on trust. NO SECRETS KEPT! Ladies if your going through hard times or a break up and you decide that while or during that break up to be involved with another individual and you and your boyfriend decide to get back together please let him know. The truth will set you free. If your boyfriend cares about you that much that while you weren't involved you made a mistake and he can except that then he truly is the one for you. Nine times out of ten he has probably made a mistake or a couple of them while you were not together. HONESTY IS KEY TO ANY RELATIONSHIP! So ladies, your best bet to working out a relationship is to be honest. Another positive step to keeping your SHIP sailing smooth.

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Friend"SHIPS" Don't EXIST

Women when you are having that "hard times" phase in your relationship, who do you always go to? The number one response is friends. Having a support system is key to any success in a relationship, but not every "key" can open every "lock". You might ask yourself... "What is he talking about when he say's key". When i say key i mean friends are a good support system with any situation including relationships, as long as they are positive. Positivity can open many aspects and many "doors" in any situations in life. Negativity won't open doors in life... Yes, friends can give input and feedback on if they think a guy is doing you wrong, but when things are going right and your friend is in your ear, that is when your relation"SHIP" will sink. Look at it this way, no one can make you happy more than that person you care about. No one knows what truly goes on in your relationship except you two in it. No one can tell you how to feel about someone or love someone except your heart! SO STOP LETTING FRIENDS ENCOURAGE YOUR DECISIONS, BECAUSE FRIENDS CAN'T MAKE OR KEEP YOU HAPPY! Alot of times you will be stuck with that "I miss him phase", but then it will be too late. SO LADIES!!!! Listen to your heart, and not your friends. Friend"SHIPS" will sink. Following this advice and your relation"SHIP" will surely sail.