Wednesday, November 2, 2011
Just The 2 Of Us
The thing about a relationship is that thing that you and that special someone share. Anything said between the two of you should be kept between you and that person, and yes ladies i know when ladies get around each other they like to gossip brag or boast or even downgrade their significant other in their girl talks. Ive witnessed to many relationships that has that third person involved because either the male or the female in the relationship has exposed issues or regarding there other. So women don't let this be you. When you have your girl talks keep the important things to yourself. Weather that's the issue of Sex, money, or even just affection. If you know there's a issue just keep it to yourself and try to solve it. This is just another Sail to keep your Relationship running smooth.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now, he is my best friend and I love him to death but sometimes we fight and I’d love to put him in a hole and just leave him there for awhile. But we have learned on our journey together that keeping other people out of our problems in our relationship keeps our relationship less bias and more calm. We have discovered that communicating the problem or annoyance out between the two of us actually solves the issue instead of being salty for weeks. Since in the long run your spouse isn’t going to be that third person, you might as well learn communication skills with your significant other, it will make or break the relationship.
ReplyDeleteAs a girl it is hard to admit that telling your best friend everything about your relationship is not always a good thing. The number one thing most girls talk about is boys and not talking about yours is hard, but it does cause problems. I have had many situations with my boyfriend where we have fought because of other people some that are my friends. The sad thing is when you think your best friend would never say anything you told her to your boyfriend or his friend and she does then no one knows who to believe and it’s a huge mess.
ReplyDeleteI think that you pointed out a very important issue that can often tear couples apart. I know I have shared too much information with my friends about my significant other which has caused problems. I have also been the one in-between a relationship and I will add that is somewhere you don’t want to be. It generally just causes a lot of unnecessary drama. I think that you can talk to your friends about your significant other, but it should be generally positive things. Overall, I agree with this blog and I think that relationships with a third party don’t work.
ReplyDeleteIt will never be guaranteed that your girl will not talk about your relationship with her friend. Gossip is a girl thing, and we go to our friends with both good and bad news. But, I mainly tell my mom everything, and this has always come to bite me in the butt because I tell her about my fights and she no longer likes my boyfriend as much as she used to. It is very stressful to have one of your friends or family members not like your significant other. So why do we keep telling? I personally have no idea, but I try to hold it all back unless it is something really bad. The worst of the worst is what I think my friends need to know.
ReplyDeleteI agree with your blog that relationships should stay private. I have shared too much information lately with my best friends about my boyfriend and it has just got my boyfriend and me in fights. Ever since then I have tried to keep information to myself and not gossip to my friends, but if something is bothering me it is really hard to keep to myself because I cannot talk to my mom about boyfriend stuff, so I have to talk to my friends about it which sometimes is not a good idea.
ReplyDeleteMy boyfriend and I have been together for a little longer than a year and we have had our fare share of arguments. When such things happen I will consult my best friend/cousin. She has had her boyfriend for a few months longer than I have and usually we have been through the same similar situations with our boyfriends so it is so easy and a relief to talk to someone who has been through the same thing and offer advice. She knows that me and him really do like each other and care about each other so she keeps up together through thick and thin. You should be able to talk to your boyfriend/girlfriend about anything but sometimes you need someone else that's a third party to help you coupe or deal with an issue. I totally get that somethings should remain between you and your significant other though! Great topic!
ReplyDeleteI agree with you in this blog. I also feel that your relationship life should be kept personal no matter what’s going on. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 7 months and yes, we do have problems at times. Early in the relationship we use to talk to our friends about each other and all that stuff. But then we realized how can we solve the problem that’s going on between us by talking to them. Yes, talking to them might release some stress but the person we really need to be talking to is each other. Once we figured that out we talked about all our problems and it made us happier.
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